To the OP:
I actually agree with some of your points. The UN thing on its own would not be enough to get me to leave. Same thing with child abuse. I'm not excusing either of those courses of action by any means, but if you believe the rest of what the WT teaches (esp. that they were chosen by God), then that should cover over just about any "mistake" they make. Because no matter what bad stuff JW leaders do, they can always point to some Old Testament king (for example, Manasseh) who did something much worse!
So, to me, it boiled down to whether the WTS was chosen by God as they say they were. That's when I started looking into the parable of the FDS and realized what a slim reed the power and authority of the WTS was based on. Here are a few points to chew on:
- In the Bible, whenever God chose someone to speak for him, he made it 100% abundantly clear. For example, he gave Moses, Jesus, and the apostles power to perform miracles. No honest-hearted person could doubt that these guys were chosen by God. So why is he so "cagey" today?
- If the FDS of Matt. 24 and Luke 12 is really a class with responsibility for leading the Christian Congregation, why is that term not mentioned at all in the rest of the New Testament? Why didn't Paul, James, John, Peter, etc., refer to themselves and to other church leaders in that way? Probably because that's not what the parable means!
- If, as the WTS alleges, the FDS existed from 33 A.D. until today, why is there ZERO evidence of any small groups of "true worshippers" (no Trinity, no hell, no immortal soul, using Jah's name, paradise earth, preaching work) between the 2nd century A.D. and C.T. Russell? Fact of the matter is that this doctrine is complete garbage and it falls apart quickly upon close examination.
Personally, I'm skeptical about whether the Bible is what it claims to be (the inspired word of an almighty God). But even if it is the inerrant word of an almighty God, there is little doubt that the JW faith is not what it claims to be (the only way of salvation). To me, the epidemic of false prophecy in the WTS history seals the deal. If you read the gospels, Jesus warned about false prophets (for example, Luke 21:8). The WTS has consistently predicted the end of the world and has been wrong every time. Why would God choose to use an organization that does exactly what his son warned against? That makes zero sense.
So, if the Bible is truly the Word of God, we are likely still in the time of the "wheat and the weeds." We aren't in the "last days" and there's no "invisible presence" of Jesus--this is a man-made doctrine that has tenuous basis in scripture. It's all very contrived and each passing year betrays its falsity.